Soo Far so good....

I must admit working @ my last job for almost 5 years i met alot of people some who became friends n some who were just good people, but i was always nervous about how things would turnout once i got a new job. What do ya know...a month after i left my job and started this new job it seems everything is gonna b okay. I have a pretty cool personality (in my opinion lol) so making friends is not really difficult. Every now and then tho i do miss my former co-workers wondering what type of foolishness is going on there..lol. Im laughing to myself right now i gotta visit those clowns one day. Sorry if the blog is gettting a bit personal but this is where i share my thoughts...so to my readers who actually read them this is for u....peace.

Relationships are overrated!!!!

Wassup ppl i always said to myself i will not get in another relationship until i have my ish together and i feel i am stupid enough to actually trust someone in regards to my feelings. Apparently i am stupid enough now but i still dont have my ish together yet...lol.

Anyway there seems to b alot of growing up i have to do in order to learn to trust someone and this shit is rough i tell u. Im also on my best behavior and havent cheated or even put myself in position to do something like that. Dont get me wrong i flirt but you cant take that away from me thats just apart of my personality and its probably the same way i got in the relationship in the first place smh. Im learning to get used to it but im not the relationship type and its gonna take time. But time is something i have i guess.

Just keeping you cats posted cuz shit been a little rocky lately but its been about 8 months so wish me luck a brother trying.

Am i over reacting?

Wassup people i got a interesting situation today and i want to know if you guys and gals can help me out. I'm currently talking to a female whom I've been seeing for a couple months now (5) and things are going good. We make each other laugh enjoy each others company and i find her very sexy which is a plus, this all sounds good but i struggle with one problem that i go back and forth on. She is bisexual, not a problem because i knew this , but she has a friend that she once dated for a bit so there is a Lil bit of history there cool. Now the problem for me is that they are inseparable and me and my girl don't go anywhere. We don't go out to eat, travel nothing. All we do is what your probably thinking...lol. This would be all good for me cause that's what most us guys want anyway, but I'm not a relationship guy and I'm trying to do this and thought they consisted of a lot more than this. This "friend" of hers seem to do everything together from a nice dinner in the city yo family gatherings and I'm supposed to sit back and just believe that there is nothing else going on there. I try not to make it an issue, but i had to bring it to her attention and she swears that they do nothing of the sort yet she agrees that if the shoe was on the other foot she would definitely find a problem. If this is the case and you understand where I'm coming from than why does she get upset when i find it an issue? I have a lot of love for this woman, but at the same time I'm not a fool and can only put up with soo much. Please give your opinions on this issue, what should i do....

Why so sensitive?

Maybe I'm just a very cold person, but I'm getting a little fed up with people always getting upset or offended by what another says. Last i checked it was America and we had the freedom of speech. I wouldn't say that I'm the most popular guy, but i know a lot of people and i find it extremely funny that others are so caught up in what someone said. A perfect example of this is a friend of mine telling me that they don't get along with their parents and they hate that their parents always have something to say, hello that's what they do. Older people naturally think they know everything and there is nothing wrong with that because we will do the same when we get older so deal with it. You cant stop anyone from voicing their opinion at anytime no matter what they have to say and its only an opinion so its neither right or wrong only a point of view (lol). I feel as if some feel as though they're the only ones going through it and that's so not the case you just handle it very differently. When children get upset they stomp around and pout as adults we should be able to deal with our emotions accordingly. Don't get me wrong some people get off on seeing others hurt and suffer which is wrong but by acting as a child you are giving them exactly what they want which comes off as weak. All I'm saying is its 2010 PPL......its time to grow up, get your emotions in check and stop feeling sorry for yourself.